Convice My Wife to Lose Weight
Ouch! Touchy subject. Obesity is sweeping America and the economy has taken its toll on our wallets, maybe its natural that overall sexual activity is down 17% as reported by a recent USA Today poll…or was that just a water cooler story?
Listen guys, the bottom line is you are a visual animal. Thin, sexy women are DESIGNED to be bred with. Why do you think large breasts are more attractive? Blame it on God, the universe, or Victoria’s Secret if you want. All I know is that sex appeal was created to propagate the species and I don’t want to battle mother nature.
If you are like millions of middle-aged men, chances are 63% that your wife is overweight or she soon will be. If the idea of sex once a month vs. every other night appeals to you, stop reading. (And that monthly sex will probably be “lights off” sex so you can keep it up.) If you don’t want to sleep with a frumpy wife, then it may be up to you to lead the charge and help her take the weight off and keep it off. There are critical psychological, emotional and nutritional steps to take.
1. Be a good example. There is no way you can expect your wife to trim down if you have a noticeable spare tire or you can’t see Mr. Happy when you are naked and standing up. Getting in shape yourself accomplishes many things including setting a good example for her, having more energy for sex, having more ROOM for sex, and…oh yeah…having more sex.
2. Don’t tell her she is heavy, fat or needs to work out. She’s looked in the mirror already and KNOWS what she looks like. Stating the obvious is about as smart as answering her question, “Does this dress make my butt look big?” In fact, it is better if you tell her she looks great! People will get defensive if they are accused of something, but most people will live up to the name they are given. So tell her she is thin and sexy and she will strive to become that for the both of you.
3. Nutrition. Of all the myths surrounding diet and nutrition there are a few undeniable facts. There are fads, pills, vitamins, machines, diets, and books but the bottom line to losing weight is simple and everyone knows it.
A) Calories are like fuel. You burn them for energy. What you don’t burn is stored as fat. That’s it. There is no secret pill, formula or machine that will take off the weight for you on a permanent basis. Know how many calories you burn every day and consume less than that. Period.
B) Processed sugars and bread, when not burned as energy, are stored as fat. You and your body KNOW what good nutrition is. Raw vegetables, lean meats, water and some fruit (Not too much because of the high sugar content) are foods that your body LIKES and can metabolize properly. Processed grains, sugars and corn syrup lead to heart disease, obesity, cancer, and premature illness.
Eliminating high-carbohydrate and high-sugar content foods will help to give your body the fuel it needs to run properly.
Make some meals for you and your family. By being the chef and taking the load off of her, you’ll not only establish proper nutrition, but you’ll score brownie points as being a well-rounded man and a husband who cares. Keep in mind, with the right attitude, proper nutrition and aerobic exercise BOTH of you will have more stamina, look better and feel like doing it more often.
You do want to get laid more, right?
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