While it is important to encourage you and your wife to grow, explore and create the sizzling experiences you both desire, sometimes achieving that calls for a bit of reflection and a “view from 30,000 feet”. In order to have the steamy exploits we all want, you have to REALLY understand communication and encourage each other’s psyche as well as libido.

Keep it fresh. Routines can give a couple comfort sense and predictability that’s both grounding and reassuring. But spontaneous adventures are also essential to really keeping that spark alive and igniting the passion you desire. Happy couples make a habit of mixing things up by planning weekend getaways to undiscovered destinations, saving money or going into business together to afford that dream vacation, or going to a sex store together. Having exciting or erotic anticipation to look forward to and sharing new titillating adventures together reaffirms their connectedness and refuels the romance.

Clear the decks. It is natural for any couple to havefrustrations, disappointments, and miscommunications from time to time. But if issues go on unspoken, they can pile up to a mountain of frustration and put your marriage at risk. Happy couples make sure they keep the communication open, and navigate those inevitable rough spots with honesty and mutual respect. If issues come up that seem too big or too complex to resolve between you two, schedule some sessions with a marriage counselor to sort out their feelings. IT isn’t scary at all and I guarantee, you’ll leave the session(s) feeling better!

Have a life.Maintaining individual identities and pursuing individual interests ensures that there’ll always be new things to share and to learn about each other. Dont’ be afraid to take separate vacations once in a while, take up divergent interests, or engage in heated political discussions. You are an individual and respecting ones individuality is very important.

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Admiration, flatery, and compliments are things that we, as humans all crave. People go to extremes for recognition in our society. Your wife is no different. She should be placed on a pedastal by you. In order to make your wife totally hot, you need to formulate a slow, steady, step by step plan that takes into consideration HER needs and yours. Her needs come first, my friend. It is the only way to get what you want. Let’s face it, we ALL want a hot woman on our arm as we walk into a room. It can boost both our egos. So, what if your wife is average? What if she is the kindest, smartest, and nicest person in the world? Doesn’t that count for anything? Of course it does…beauty is skin deep and relationships based soley on physical attraction are doomed from the beginning. However, that does not mean that your wife wants to be frumpy! The simplest, non-materialistic woman in the world still wants to look and feel like a princess. You, as her knight, are responsible for helping her. I outline a specific psychological and practical process for this in my book available online.

Here are some salient points that you need to address and work on in order to have a gorgeous trophy wife like I do!

1. Even BEFORE you take her shopping, (YES…you are going shopping, buddy) compliment her on her features. Tell her how slender her legs are, how trim her waist is, or how sexy her tummy is. Be specific and direct. Tell her that you have always been attracted to these features and it really turns you on.

2. If some of her features are not as hot as they used to be, don’t worry. Throughout this process you will be using specific, positive, effective triggers to get her to tone up, lose weight, and dress up for the both of you! Don’t give her false flattery. If her rear is too big, don’t say it isn’t…she’ll know you re lying.

3. Go to a NICE store. I’m not bashing Target or Walmart, here. But, if you want a supermodel for a wife, you need to go to where the fashions are. You don’t have to pay retail…go to the sale rack if you can and take the TIME to let her try on as much as she wants.

4. Be honest. If she comes out in something that isn’t flattering, pause and suggest she try something else on. When she does come out with something flattering, use your body language, voice and eyes to let her know how beautiful she is. Having your jaw hit the floor will do more for your relationship than you can imagine. Not all women want to be models, but they all want to be desired by their husbands. Let her know you are impressed!

5. If she can’t decide between 2 outfits, buy them both. Sometimes you may spend a bit more than you are comfortable with. Get over it. Spending money together on things that make her beautiful and make you proud is much cheaper than therapy and/or divorce! Let her know that you WANT her to spend some cash on herself. She may already be the one who spends too much in the household…so what. This shopping trip is being used for her ego, your libido, and to re-ignite the passion in your marriage. If she looks especially fine and your marital progress can handle it, go into the dressing room with her and SHOW her how hot she is….a little fondling or full blown sex in a dressing room is sure to be exciting…don’t get caught, or you won’t be invited to shop there again.

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